To find lost family members, all you need is an Internet connection. In the past, the search for missing relatives required leg work and travel. Whether you did the research yourself or hired an investigator, the process was lengthy and expensive.

To find a lost relative, it is helpful to know as much about the person as possible, but do not let lack of information intimidate you. The more information, the easier the search, but once you start digging, you will find more information. So, don't wait to get started. Begin by tracking down this information:

1. Note the missing person's name, nicknames or name changes due to marriage.

2. Find a social security number and photograph to make it easier to find a loved one, but they are not necessary.

3. Narrow your search to a state or region.

Action Steps
The best contacts and resources to help you get it done

Find lost family on the Internet

The Internet has made many things in life easier, including finding lost family. There are many public databases that you can search for free, and others that require a small fee. Both allow you to conduct your search in the privacy of your home.

I recommend: Start with a free search at Zaba Search. If that doesn't yield results, move onto a site that accesses public records, such as Public Records Now or USA People Search. While there is a charge for this information, you can preview results before you are charged.

Cast a wide net to find lost loved ones

It can be difficult to find lost loved ones in a country as large as the United States. If an Internet search doesn't provide you with answers, post your missing person's information on usernet newsgroups or websites that seek to connect family members.

I recommend: The Seeker allows you to post information to their website, along with your contact information. There is also a popular usernet group, Soc.net, that allows you to post information. While the odds of your missing loved ones reading the site may seem small, others may recognize the name or description and pass the information along.

Finding loved ones may require professional help

If your search to find lost loved ones has left you empty handed, it may be necessary to bring in professional help. This does not have to be expensive. Online help is more affordable than traditional private investigation.

I recommend: OmniTrace provides personal consultation to find lost family members. Freelance Security allows you to post your needs and wait for responses from interested private investigators.

Tips & Tactics

Helpful advice for making the most of this Guide

• •  To find a lost relative, do not overlook the obvious options. Conduct a Google search with the person's first and last name in italics. Contact the post office at the person's last known address, and the alumni office at the missing person's alma mater.
• •  Begin the process with a free search for lost love ones, but expect to pay for addresses and phone numbers.