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Constance Gustke

Guide to Finding and Working with a Business Mentor

Learn from successful business owners with free counseling

By Constance Gustke

Sometimes, as a business owner, you can feel like you have no one to turn to for help. You can't always approach your employees for help with big decisions – and they're not likely to have the experience to help you find the right answers. What you can do is develop a relationship with a business mentor, a successful businessperson who has already been through the growing pains of starting and running a business. Mentors can offer many advantages, including:
  1. Free counseling.
  2. The opportunity to learn from someone else's successes and failures.
  3. Unbiased feedback.
  4. The ability to tap into their network.

Action Steps
The best contacts and resources to help you get it done


Know why are you seeking help

Your first task is determining what you want to accomplish with the mentoring relationship. If you want to improve your personal skills, take an inventory of your weaknesses and strengths. If there's a specific area of your business that needs improvement, decide to focus the mentoring relationship on that.
I recommend: Assess your skills in a variety of areas, such as marketing, administrative, sales and financial management at ACINet.org.

Start the search by networking

Finding a mentor takes legwork and lots of networking. Good places to search include industry trade associations as well as your local Rotary Club, Chamber of Commerce or SBA Small Business Development Center. Ask for referrals from friends, colleagues and other successful people in your community.
I recommend: Find free counseling at an SBA Small Business Development Center near you. SCORE gives free online mentoring; review its "60-Second Guide to Finding a Business Mentor." Women can find a list of formal business mentoring programs at the National Women's Business Council. Members of the National Association for the Self-Employed can choose an online consultant in the specific business area where help is needed.

Choose a mentor

Make a list of your top candidates. Then call or write them to set up a meeting. Take a short list of key questions to ask during your meeting that test your compatibility. For example, ask your prospective mentor about his or her work history, goals and successes. Later, note how comfortable you felt asking questions or sharing dreams. Once you've decided on the final candidate, ask if he or she is available on an ongoing basis.
I recommend: Find resources to help you choose a mentor at AdvanceMentoring.com, a service that helps locate business mentors.

Forge a strong relationship bit by bit

Commitment and consistency help build trust. Discussions should be held regularly, and they should include updates on your progress, as well as focusing on short and long-term goals. Come to meetings prepared; bring a laptop or some other recording device. Review the status of your action list before each meeting.
I recommend: Discover how to create a mutually rewarding relationship at About.com.

Tips & Tactics
Helpful advice for making the most of this Guide

  • Optimally, a mentor should match the skill sets you've already defined. He or she doesn't need to be a community hot-shot or celebrity.
  • Consider having more than one mentor to address different needs.
  • Be dependable by being on-time and preparing questions before your meeting.
  • Show your gratitude by sending thank-you notes or small gifts.

The official source of Finding and Working with a Business Mentor is
the Career Guidance page at Business.com

Recommended Solution Providers

MediaPro: Consulting Services
Business consulting firm offering business mentoring services.

Perrone-Ambrose Associates: Mentoring and Coaching Services and Training
Provides business mentoring and coaching.

Passion for Business: Business Mentoring and Coaching
Small business coaching and consulting for the self-employed.

Synchronicity Business Coaching: Motivational Coaching for Business
Provides business coaching services that boost productivity.

Best Sites to Learn More

About.com: Business Mentoring
Information about finding and working with a business mentor.

SmallBusinessSchool.org: Find a Mentor
Resources and advice on finding a business mentor.

Advance Mentoring: Resources
Articles, links and information about finding or becoming a mentor.

Worldwide Association of Business Coaches: Find a Coach
Articles, links and information about this international professional organization of business coaches. Includes a link to the directory to help find a coach.

SBA.gov: Mentoring Program
Federal business mentoring program.

Inc.com: Finding a Mentor Resources
Articles about finding and working with a business mentor.



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